There are several different signs that you can look out to find out if your ex boyfriend still loves you. There are several different signs that you can look out to find out if your ex boyfriend still loves you. In this article we will take a look at each of the important signs so that you can make important decisions in case you decide that you want your ex boyfriend back.
The signs your ex still loves you that we are about to discuss are proven to be accurate most of the times. However since we are talking about a male human being, there can be rare instances when a man exhibits many of the signs but still may not be interested in you.
Now before we start to discuss the details of signs your ex still loves you, there are a couple of steps that you need to take.
The first step is to decide if you really want to your ex boyfriend back. Now this step is important because if there is a legitimate reason for wanting to reunite after a breakup, then it’s good.
Couples who reunite after a breakup with real good reasons, often stay united for a long period of time. Therefore it’s important that you think through carefully and decide if you want to reunite with your ex.
The second important step that you need to follow is the no contact rule. According to experts, by following this rule you would be in a good position to win back your ex boyfriend.
I know this is not an easy thing to do. I’m sure you will get tempted from time to time to call him up, send an email, or send a text message. But Don’t Do It.
Don’t get me wrong, this step has its own significance in determining if your ex boyfriend still misses you. As you read this article further, things will get much clearer.
The Signs That Your Ex Boyfriend Still Likes You
It doesn’t matter who started the breakup or how bad the breakup was or how much he hates you, one thing is certain, he must surely be thinking about you.
It is believed that almost 80% of couple who break up do think about their ex’s.
Therefore you can safely assume that your ex boyfriend must be still thinking about you. Now the real question is whether he thinks positively about you or negatively.
Obviously, it makes it much easier for you to get him back if he thinks positively about. But let me tell you that even if he thinks negatively about you there are a few things that you can do to change his mind.
Actually speaking, right after the breakup, both of you must be angry with each other and therefore expecting him to think positive things for you would be a bit far fetched.
Now this is where the important “No Contact Rule” would do wonders for you, especially if you were the one who broke up with him.
The No Contact rule is going to achieve two important things for you.
Firstly, it will allow both of you some time and space so that you two can calm down and the anger weathers down.
Secondly, it will make your boyfriend wonder why you have not contacted him or texted him to find out about him.
With clarity about the No Contact Rule, let’s now talk about our first sign:
He Tries To Get In Touch With You
If he tries to contact you by sending a text message or by calling you up, then certainly he still has interest in you.
However this surely does not mean that all your relationship problems are over and you can fall into his arms and rekindle romance in his mind.
This is however a sign that there is scope for fixing the relationship and things are pointing in the right direction.
However, you need to remember that you will have to stick to the no contact rule and this will greatly increase your chances of getting back together with him.
He Goes To Places Where You Go
If you see that your ex is also visiting the same places that you go, then it could be because he still has feelings for you.
If you find him just once in a place where you normally go, then it could be coincidence.
However if it happens 3-4 times then he is certainly following you and is most probably a sign your ex still loves you.
He Is Not Dating Someone Else
Even after weeks of separation, if he still does not have a new date, then it is a good sign for you.
If you talk to his friends you may come to know that he is not even trying to get a new girlfriend.
Now, this may differ from person to person. Some men may go for rebound relationship and some may not.
However if he is still not dating someone then your chances of getting back together is much better.
He Gazes At You
I know that I have recommended the no contact rule, but I also realize that not everyone is going to be able to follow this rule for 30 days.
Therefore if you meet your ex boyfriend by chance during the 30 day period then you need to see how he reacts.
If he gazes at you or looks into your eyes for a long period, then it is a sign that he still has feelings for you.
He Keeps In Touch With Family And Friends
Now if he is not able to talk to you or he does not get a response to text messages from you because of the no contact rule then he is going to try and get in touch with your family and friends.
This is very logical because this is the only way for him to find out about you.
This is a positive indication for you. Only in rare cases you will find a man getting in touch with your family and friends to annoy you.
If you notice that your boyfriend displays many of the signs discussed in this article, then you need to decide whether to get back with your ex or to move on.